Bøker av Arist von Schlippe

Conflicts within the owner circle  - or rather, within the "family of the family business"  - are often the main cause of existential crises for family businesses. The damaging effects of unchecked family conflicts affect two social systems: the family business and the business family itself. The impairment of the survival capability of the family business goes hand in hand with the reduced chance of constructive follow-up communication between family members. Once caught up in conflict communication, it is extremely difficult for business families to get out of it without the help of external knowledge. It is therefore surprising that the topic of conflict prevention in business families has so far been given relatively little attention. Against this background, this book takes a closer look at the topic of "Conflicts in the Business Family" and deals with a number of topics that are essential to understanding the subject: the specific challenges and conflicts that business families typically face, as well as practically proven methods of conflict resolution at different levels. The content is based on the experiences that the two authors have gained in a variety of research projects, conflict moderation, and family strategic consulting projects over the past 18 years. The key findings from this wealth of experience are now made available to the general public.

Conflicts have accompanied mankind since time immemorial, and for almost as long people have been trying to limit and deal with them - whether as those affected by them or as professionals with more or less success. For once a system of conflict has developed, once negative expectation structures and with them negative self-evident truths and inherent laws have developed, it becomes increasingly difficult for those involved to escape them: The complexity of our social world, in which it is not easy for communication to find its way, remains unseen. A violated sense of justice, misunderstandings and unfortunate attempts to correct them alternate. One begins to attribute the causes of the conflict to the "person" ("It's you! It's your fault!") and to attribute negative motives to the conflict partner ("You're only doing this because ...!"), who in turn does the same - just like a carousel that slowly gets going. A number of well-studied but little-known psychological processes occur within us when we are in conflict. Outrage at the other person grows, usually unfortunately on both sides. Slowly, the "carousel of outrage and indignation" begins to spin - faster and faster, until...The book places the various psychological mechanisms in the context of a systemic understanding of conflict and explains ways to slow down the carousel.

Konflikte begleiten die Menschheit seit Urzeiten und wohl fast genauso lange versuchen Menschen, sie zu begrenzen und mit ihnen umzugehen - sei es als Betroffene oder als Helfer, mit mehr oder weniger großem Erfolg. Denn wenn erst einmal ein Konfliktsystem entstanden ist, wenn sich negative Erwartungsstrukturen und mit ihnen negative Selbstverständlichkeiten und Eigengesetzlichkeiten entwickelt haben, wird es für die Beteiligten immer schwerer, diesen zu entrinnen: Die Komplexität unserer sozialen Lebenswelt, in der es für die Kommunikation ohnehin nicht leicht ist, sich zu orientieren, wird ausgeblendet. Verletztes Gerechtigkeitsempfinden, Missverständnisse und unglückliche Versuche, diese zu korrigieren, wechseln sich ab. Man beginnt, Konfliktursachen "personenbezogen" zuzurechnen ("Es liegt an dir! Deine Schuld!"), und dem Konfliktpartner negative Motive zu unterstellen ("Das machst du nur, weil ...!"), der das wiederum ebenfalls tut. Eine Reihe gut untersuchter, aber wenig bekannte psychologischer Vorgänge laufen in uns ab, wenn wir in Konflikte geraten. Die Empörung über den anderen wächst, dummerweise meist auf beiden Seiten. Langsam beginnt das Karussell sich zu drehen - immer schneller, bis ...Das Buch stellt die verschiedenen psychologischen Mechanismen in den Kontext eines systemischen Verständnisses von Konflikten und erläutert Möglichkeiten wie das Karussell gebremst und verlangsamt werden kann.

This book deals with dynastic business families. Such families are characterized by a circle of owners comprising more than 50 family members, which typically face specific issues and challenges for which there has been little research knowledge and practical approaches until now. The book presents results and findings from a special research project on ¿big family management¿ where 7 representatives of dynastic families from Germany were studied over a 3-year period. The result was the identification of six topic areas that management in these business families has to deal with. At the same time, the study observes that dynastic business families hardly follow the logic of classic families anymore, but can rather be understood as networks with common family backgrounds. The study also reveals that a large number of business families are heading for large shareholder groups due to changed inheritance practices. The contents outlined here provide an orientation framework for the growing business family.