Bøker av Dominique M. Snedeker

For fans of Bunmi Laditan, "Dear Mother" and John Kenney, "Love Poems for Married People"From the author of "Motherhood: The Crucible of Love," and "cold. Untamed Beauty" comes a work of brutally honest maternal expression. In "Motherhood: Empire of Lost Toys and Mismatched Socks," Dominique M. Snedeker exposes the vulnerabilities of parenting elementary school-age children. Not only is it a difficult time for the kids themselves now maneuvering in a social world outside of home, but it is a time when parents might not have all the right answers, when personal growth must surpass the speed of the children's maturation. Throughout her work, Snedeker creates a poetic, often humorous vocabulary for those who struggle to name or articulate their own fluctuating emotions. From missing her younger mom-self, to falling asleep while checking off tasks, to yodeling children in from play, she ultimately finds the secret, in the end, which fuels the daily struggle. You'll find in this work a reflection of your worst and best moments, when you push through all the emotional clutter and overstimulation to find joy in the chaos of parenting.From the back cover:Sideways days-Everything falling out of cabinets;My thoughts spilling like the milkAccidentally batted over, nowSeeping through the brand-new tablecloth-While once again,Disgruntled children queue before meAs if I were a type of Solomon,With some kind of useful answers-Days, weeks, months-who knows?Pass with each breath as I count to ten,Soothing myself;Finally, I look at their expectant facesAwaiting the answer to an unheard question.Instead of responding, I pull them intoA mamma bear hug, squeezing my eyes tight-Trying not to cry.Strong young arms wrap around me,Still, for now, seeking comfort-And although I can't fix everything,Right now-maybe ever,I'll just hold them for a little whileAs they grow under my embrace.I miss them,Even while they're still here.From the Publisher:Dominique M. Snedeker bravely examines the emotional depths of parenting active children. As a mom myself, I found her expressions an authentic voice, neither gilding nor corroding the maternal experience. Although this is written from the "mother" perspective, the experience is true for anyone who has daily contact and investment in children. Not only do they overwhelm you with questions, comments, fidgeting and as Dominique puts it, "noise," but they fill you with joy as you watch them discover their world and themselves. We at Hear Our Voice Publishing love that Dominique pens our experiences in such a way that we can either relive them or have our experiences validated. We hope you will see some of yourself as you read, "Motherhood: Empire of Lost Toys and Mismatched Socks.""There are quite a few times after reading a poem that I thought, Yeah, I remember those days, and would laugh out loud remembering." - Tasha Schiedel, Mother of two girls

When Dominique Snedeker left her Air Force career destined instead for marriage and family, she had no idea that transitioning from a professional to stay-at-home mom would be so difficult. A life-long dream, raising babies all day, every-day, was a challenge, but admitting this felt like she'd let herself, her children, her grandmothers, the world-her own ideals down. To process this disillusionment, she turned to writing. Those midnight and stolen-moment typing's birthed this collection of poetry, an ode perhaps, to motherhood.Motherhood: The Crucible of Love explores the post-partum journey of self-rediscovery, the existential crisis every parent faces when suddenly life is no longer theirs. But parenting arouses instinctual love, a love that overwhelms, a love powerful enough to refine. Walk through this catharsis of honesty to find yourself remade in the furnace, in the heat, in the crucible we call love.Becoming a mother-the breakingBecoming the woman-a remakingStanding at the mirrorHair askew and tank stretched and spottedWith who knows whatI see nothing but blurry linesAnd eyes I do not know.The shock startles me and I wonder: Where is the mother in the woman?Where is the woman in the mother?The question surprises me and IBump my head as I stareInto unknown eyes, exploringA woman I've forgottenOr tradedFor those sleepers floppedLike puppies in bed.The woman before the breakingMust have been me.I can't remember nowWhat solitude and papercutsFeel like. But the paci on the sinkWarms my heart-Little Eyes and fingers and toesFlood my body with warmthAnd a gummy smile withOne, two, what eight? little teethMakes my chest tight.The mother is here.And somewhere, So is the woman.