Bøker av Harry Benson

Where there is Love there is life You have the necessary tools that can make choosing easier: Communication, honesty and trust. People are more likely to fail in their relationships when they refuse to use these tools. Stop thinking that you have to wait until you fall in love with a person to find happily-even-after. Love is a choice that you can make or ignore.Knowing Love is a choice will help you better manage your relationships when you have eventually found one, and you will be happy the rest of your life.Harry Benson, a clinical psychologist, who researches relationships, one of the world's leading experts on relationships, reveals how you alone can make love happen and why. If you're having trouble choosing the right person, the problem isn't you. The problem is your system. Failures in choosing the right person repeats itself again and again because you don't know how to make it happen all these years. But don't be weary, you are in the right place, where you will know how you alone can help yourself and make changes. Harry is known for his ability to distill complex topics into simple behaviors that can be easily applied to daily life. Here, he draws on the most proven ideas from past relationships to create an easy-to-understand choices for making good and healthy relationship. Learn how to: - Communicate your needs;...and much more. Love is a choice will reshape the way you think about your love life, and give you the guide and strategies you need to transform your life.

Are you a new parent, or about to become one? Learn three simple habits that will keep love alive and protect your relationship against the pressures that parenting brings. In the excitement and exhaustion of becoming parents, the first thing that can get overlooked is your relationship. You might spend less time together, argue over little things, drift apart. In the UK, one in five children see their parents separate before the end of their first year at school. One in two children experience family breakdown before they finish school. But it doesn't have to be like this. Most family breakdown is avoidable. In Let's Stick Together, relationship educator and father of six Harry Benson guides you through three simple habits that research shows make or break new mums and dads. Illustrated with real-life examples from Harry's own back-from-the-brink marriage and those of other couples, Let's Stick Together highlights simple principles that will make your relationship the best it can be and ensure you don't become just another statistic.

Everyone wants a relationship that lasts. Yet nearly half of all today's parents split up. Harry and Kate Benson began their own married life with great expectations. But within a few years, they stood on the brink of divorce. Today, their marriage is stronger than ever and they have helped many other struggling couples. So what changed? In this ground-breaking book Harry and Kate tell their own inspiring, hope-filled story, set within the wider context of family research into what works. Harry and Kate's radical solution to strengthening families and reducing unnecessary family breakdown is simple. Their research suggests a happy mum tends to mean a happy household. She is the lynchpin around whom the family rotates. So for most mums, the success of a marriage depends primarily on her husband's ability to make her feel valued. In other words: husband, love your wife. And she will love you right back. In that order. That's what mums want. That's the recipe for happy family life.

In April 1982 Harry Benson was a 21-year-old Royal Navy commando helicopter pilot, fresh out of training and one of the youngest helicopter pilots to serve in the Falklands War. But almost nothing is known of the young commando helicopter pilots and aircrewmen who made it all happen on land and sea.