Bøker av Tamizh Iniya

This novel descibes the love, friendship, marriage, hatred, divorce, adoption, impotency, struggles, sacrifices and survival of four women, who became friends when they joined as teachers in a school."Nandhini, if you don't mistake me, will you give one of your children in adoption?""I will be the happiest person, if it works, but my husband and my family will not allow that. Already I tried to put them in some homes, but they avoided it. Actually, my son never called him as father nor accepted him so. Only my daughter is fond of him, since she was a year old kid when I married him. ---"So you are denying the accusations against you?""Sure sir. He is trying to cover his flaws by accusing me. I request you to order him to get a medical certificate to prove his masculinity."""If he had asked divorce by disclosing the genuine reason of his weakness, it's ok. But he wants it by assassinating my character. Who gave the right for him to do so?""""I agree with you. So you think that sex is more important for a married life?""""I don't know what to say. If this question would be shot on me in the mid chapter of my married life, say, after 8 or 10 years of lovable and understanding life, I would surely say 'No'. But, I am facing this question in the first line of the first chapter in my life, Then how can I say 'No'""She strongly said, ""I would say, sex is the important base of a marriage life to trust one another. If that is missing, there arises doubt on one's virtue...

The book describes the traditional culture of the people of TamilNadu through many articles and how the Modernisation and Westernisation makes an impact over them. The comparison of life style of our people in this MILLENNIUM and before, is portrayed in it. MUHURTHAM (WEDDING DAY RITUALS): After the bride and groom are seated in the manavarai( the platform in wedding hall where the wedding rituals take place), the priest continues his mantras and rituals along with the bride and groom's family with the first offering to lord Ganesh. The rituals symbolizes the importance of the relatives and relationships of bride and groom.Padha Poojai: The main ritual is padha poojai. The bride and groom will wash the foot of their parents and keep sandal and vermilion on their feet and shower flowers to get their blessings.Machaan Modhiram: In this the male sibling of the bride(machaan relation for groom)should put a finger ring to the groom. Naathanar Vilaku: Through out the wedding rituals the female sibling of the groom (naathanar relation for the bride) should hold a lamp( kai vilaku) standing behind the couple.Sapthapathi: Sapthapathi( seven steps) is the ritual where the groom takes the bride's right hand in his left hand and leads her around the sacred fire seven times while the priest recites Vedic verses that bond the groom and bride with a promise to share a life together. There is significance to these seven steps.

This book describes the rites and rituals followed in a traditional tamil marriages. Also the science behind those traditions.This book can be given as a return gifts in marriages. If the readers like to get it in bulk orders with discounts, can contact.